A lovely girl a wonderful guy.. why shouldnt there be a 'connection'?
A probable reason could be that one such 'connection' is lacking on either side.
So, with that knowledge, what makes a man decide when to pursue and when to step off that pillar of 'courage' and take his loving attempts to another female.?
I will let you in to a secret. Let her make a move. The first move even. Whether its as suttle as shareing the armrest at the theater just so your arms are touching or as blunt as the first kiss.
But for goodness sakes, if her 'pursuit' is not in harmony with your own, you can only 'push' for so long.
Dont be persistenly irritating.
So, getting to my original point. The skipping from friendship to love is not acceptable i dont care what form or human or alien you are.
Meet.. share a talk.. a turkey, whatever.. and then work to love.. even if working takes 1 day, it is the friendship base that will hold strong and true when the love is challanged. Work with that and then create your mold.
Thats all i wanted to discuss...
Please... please.. stop skipping 'friends'. its not a bad thing. Its your 'in' to anything else.
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Was this directed at me? -Hal
Nope. Towards men in general. Just my thoughts.
Lol, i like it, too bad its almost expected of the guys to show a forward motion to forming a more intricate relationship.
Atleast thats the gist i get from some of the ladies i have dated.
haha.. I don't know how i missed this one earlier. But ouch.. is all i have to say.. I felt that jab of, "persistently trying even when the feelings aren't returned" haha.. lucky for you i'm too arrogant to have feelings :)
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